Prov, 18- 21 says that …Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. Words hold the power of life or death – speak life! The next time you see your spouse, tell him/her TWO THINGS – something you appreciate about WHAT THEY DO (laundry, going to work, making dinner, etc.) and something you appreciate about WHO THEY ARE (a person of integrity, an easy laughter, a quick forgiver, smart, funny, etc.) See what happens!