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Top 20 Things To Look For In A Christian Mate

by Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D. and Michelle Graham

No one has ever said that dating should get more difficult. In fact, the one thing everyone wants to find is a way to make it easier. Check out our ultimate list of the 20 things to look for in a Christian mate. It dives deep into the sorts of things that make us into the people we are today. While you read through the points below, remember that some of them will be immediately apparent, but others may take weeks or months to learn. Some items will be deal breakers for you, and others may not worry you at all. Try using it as a weighted scale instead of a checklist. Also, don’t forget to get God involved in your decisions. He may use the things on this list to help you turn away from a bad situation, or he may just use it to help you be aware of what you could be getting yourself into. Since His second coming probably won’t be to tell us who we should marry, we need to rely on the wealth of information we have here on Earth, plus a solid amount of prayer and discernment. That’s why each item on this list should come paired with a talk with God and trusted others. Once you decide how important these 20 ideas are to you, put your thoughts into action and enjoy the results!

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1- Faith

Many people claim the title of Christian without actually believing anything related to Jesus. Does your date have faith in God, themselves, or just plain hard work. When it comes to things like love and marriage, being with someone who shares the same faith is essential. 2 Corinthians 6:14 is all about teaming up with a person who places their trust in God just as you do. Just like the verse says, light and darkness have a very hard time coexisting, and one of them will always take over the other. God’s will for us is the teaming up of two hearts filled with light.

 

For the other 19 things to look for in a Christian Mate visit ChristianCrush.com