3 Ways To Make Arguments A Good Thing

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    Is there really a “right” way to have an argument?

    “Massive, all-out fights are bad for you,” says Jonathan Alpert, a psychotherapist. “On the other hand, learning to have good conversations keeps your relationship healthy.”

    Here’s how to actually benefit as a couple from an argument:

    Breathe

    If you’re so upset that you can’t even think straight, much less keep your voice down, it’s not not a good time to have a conversation. You’re better off taking a step back, going into another room, going for a walk, or simply sitting down and breathing.

    “It’s next to impossible to be logical, let alone empathetic, in a heightened state,” Alpert says.

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