Fighting Fair Tip: Use “I feel” statements. This is an old standby, but it still works. Instead of saying, “You make me so angry when you…” say, “I feel upset when you… Would you be willing to …” It’s not a magic cure but it decreases defensiveness.   So try it!

Jimmy Evans discusses the proven warning signs that can lead to a divorce. By recognizing these symptoms, you can have a lasting marriage and end the devastation of divorce for you and your family. From “The Indestructible Marriage” series by Jimmy Evans.…

From time to time all of us exhibit destructive and negative behavior in marriage. Jimmy Evans offers advice for overcoming any destructive tendencies that may be present in your relationship.  

We all have pain from our past mistakes. No matter what you’ve experienced with God’s help you can overcome. Every great person has to rise above the pain of their past to reach their destiny.Listen to Jimmy Evans as he ministers about this important topic in marriage.

Other great clip to help your marriage from Jimmy Evans… Every word we say has an attitude attached with it. Even if the words you are say are encouraging, when your tone is wrong your message will not be received the way you intended. The Indestructible Marriage series order page:…

Here is another great video from Jimmy Evans… When most people feel out of love they begin to give up on the marriage. Even if you feel like the love is nearly gone, you can get it back by applying these basic principles to your relationship. Our Secret Paradise series order page:

So last week we talked about what every man need, well this week we are focused on the ladies. I am using lessons from Jimmy Evans. He has been teaching on marriage for years and gives great advice. When a wife knows that her husband will meet her needs, she will feel confident and secure. […]

Jimmy Evans is a leader in marriage tips and advise from a christian and biblical perspective.  See what he says every man needs:   click here to see clip:    

  During the holiday season it can get really hectic, make sure you are spending that quality time together. Yes, the kids and other family are going to need your time, but make sure you and your spouse spend some alone time together this holiday season. It may just be that needed break you need […]

  Play together!  Life is full of bills and chores and problems and work…so take time to play together!  Break out the Scrabble board, go to the park and throw a frisbee or football. Have a tickle fight, play hide-and-go-seek, Go see a funny movie or watch one together at home. Go out to eat […]

I know it sounds funny but it really works. One of you may be a night owl, but it’s good to try to go to bed at the same time. Most couples have a busy schedule and are running here and there all day. Schedule a time when you BOTH will go to bed together. […]

  The biggest waste of effort in a marriage is trying to change your spouse, since the problems you have with your spouse are generally problems you have in yourself. When you try to change your spouse you come across as a nag and wind up sending the message that ‘who you are is not […]